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The Pink Elephants Support Network

Peer Support - Online Communities

We are so sorry for your loss or losses.

Welcome to our Private Online Communities page.

Pink Elephants provides private online communities through Facebook, where you can connect with many others that have gone through the heartbreaking experience of losing their much-loved babies. 

Pink Elephants Facebook group communities are a safe space where you can support each other. You can join and post anonymously, you may wish to join and read or join and engage in conversations. Whatever you need. 

You’ll find they are your community who truly gets it, there is no judgement and no question too silly - just a lot of empathy for you and your loss. 

Our groups are moderated by our incredible Peer Support Companions who all have their own loss experience and ensure they remain safe spaces.

Our Facebook support groups

We acknowledge and resonate with the different stages of miscarriage and early pregnancy loss, the trauma of Termination for Medical Reasons (TFMR), the fear of trying to conceive again, struggles with infertility, and the anxiety of pregnancy after loss (PAL). To envelop and nurture you through these stages, we offer different groups for each phase.


  • To request to join our Miscarriage Support group, please click here
  • To request to join our Termination For Medical Reasons (TFMR) Support group, please click here
  • To request to join our Preconception Support group, please click here
  • To request to join our Pregnancy After Loss (PAL) Support group, please click here
  • To request to join our Sexuality and Gender Diverse (LGBTIQ+) Miscarriage & Preconception Support group, please click here

Please Note:

For security and confidentiality, we ask that you request to join each community by answering every question and agreeing to the group rules. Please read these carefully. If you do not answer a question and are declined acceptance, this is likely because you missed an answer or to agree to the group rules. Please try again - we are not actively rejecting those in grief and in need of support, but we have a duty of care to those within the groups to ensure our communities are safe and equal.  

We do not accept pages or people who have not experienced early pregnancy loss. If you are a supportive loved one or medical professional eager to understand, please head to our Support Someone You Love or our Research Pages.

You are not alone - we’re in this together.

*Confidentiality & Referrals: We take your privacy seriously and treat all information with respect, sensitivity, and confidentiality. All private groups are moderated by Peer Support Companions who have been briefly trained by a bereavement counsellor and have lived experience so can only offer peer support. For all other signs of complicated grief and/or effects from other psychological influences, we will refer you to professionals. All online communication is saved in archives.

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